Living in the moment can be exciting and overwhelming at the same time depending on if we are what I like to call “planners or whatever’s”. Planners are people who plan out every aspect of their lives and sometimes over analyze certain situations, because they want everything to go as planned. On the other hand, whatever’s just go with the flow not really worrying about the future just focusing on each day that’s ahead of them. Both can be problematic if you are too much of either one that’s why it’s always great to have a balance between the two.
Living in The Moment
When it comes to living life in the moment it can be viewed as an excellent time in our lives, because we’re enjoying the present. This can be amazing, because as many of us know we can get bogged down by focusing too much on the future. Therefore, losing appreciation for the present stage we’re in instead of enjoying life as it is today. Often times when we are living in the present our life can be more enjoyable and electrifying. Living in the moment can also give us experiences that we might not have if we thought it through rather than just going with the flow.
Living for the Future
Focusing on our future can be a significant factor that contributes to our life’s trajectory towards success. Without having a plan some would say “your life will be in shambles” or “without a plan how can you have a future”. In many cases this is true without having a plan or goal we can become stagnant or what I like to call “lost in the sauce”. This happens when we’re just living life in the moment without any plans.
Planning V.S Living for the Day
It can be tricky when comparing planning and living for the present, because both are important to living a successful and fruitful life. On one hand having a plan is contingent on what we want to accomplish. When it comes to dreams and aspirations it is imperative that we have a detailed plan to help us get from one stage to another. However, being overly focused on the future can prevent us from truly appreciating our present.
Final Thoughts
Regardless of whether we are focused on our future or not. In the end our future is always around us i.e. what will we do for money, where will we live, what career path are we on. I would love to hear your thoughts are you planner or do you just live life in the moment? Comment below &if you liked this post please share!
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I’m a planner, I like to know what’s going to happen when. Over the past few years, i’ve realized that it’s not worth all the stress and anxiety when something doesn’t go the way I want, so I’ve learned to go with the flow on most things. But I still keep my planning tendencies when it comes to my career, so I focus all my planning energy on that. It’s an awkward balance I will admit, but it works for me!
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That is interesting I think we all need balance in our lives. Once we attain that then the sky is the limit on what we can achieve. Thanks for sharing!
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There’s a difference in planning for the future and worrying about it. I believe one should always have a plan and should also be open to adapting it because of changing circumstances. I’m talking about serious issues like saving for retirement or kids’ educations.
Spontaneity is important for the times when you can just cut loose and do what sounds like fun. Living in the moment is what creates the memories we cherish. Planning makes them possible.
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Great insight it is always important to have a plan in life. But balance is always the key. Thanks for reading & sharing such insightful thoughts!
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I’m an in betweener I like to relax n go with the flow but also have a plan if need be
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That is great its always best to have a balance!
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For me, each situation is different. Sometimes, I like a plan and then, there are times when the unknown is welcome. I always start my day with prayer, thanking God for His blessings, and asking Him to guide my path throughout the day. 🙂
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That is truly the best option to ask God to guide our steps!
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I am an obsessive planner, although I’m learning g to go with the flow. It is challenging especially in terms of career planning. I’ve discovered that I can plan for many aspects of my career but not every minute detail!
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Very true it can be diffcult to plan our whole life out. This is why balance is the key. Thanks for sharing!
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Jay you have said it so aptly and yes what is the meaning of living in the past or future our present moment is everything. Yes we need to plan for the future too. 👍👍👍👍
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Thank you I’m glad it resonated with you!
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Yes of course Jay. Have a nice day.
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I tend to be a planner when I need to be, as i like to know what lies ahead. But I can also go with whatever if needed. It’s a mix for me.
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The best option is to have a balance between the two. Thamks for sharing!
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For most things, I’m a planner, but there are occasions when I don’t plan every second of my day.
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Understadable I try to do the same thing. Thanks for reading!
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Excellent post man. Unfortunately for me I live in the past. Don’t worry been working on it but this was great motivation.
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Don’t worry about it as long as your working on it is all that matters. Thanks for reading.
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Most def always brotha
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I like to consider myself someone who plans ahead. I also like to just get up and go sometimes.
So not sure where I actually sit in regards to things. I do know that I don’t live in the past though.
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The key is to have a balance between the two. Thanks for reading!
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This post really strikes a chord with me. I’m usually quite balanced between planning my goals and yet being open to opportunities, but just lately I’ve lost my direction. I don’t really have many long-term plans at the moment because right now I just don’t know what I want! Sometimes the mundane daily tasks can consume all of our attention and meanwhile life marches on.
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I understand excatly what you’re coming from. I was once in a similar situation and it can be overwhelming at times. Thanks for reading!
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I do a bit of both. Planning comes naturally to me in some situations but in other situations, I do live in the moment. And, when I get a good balance all is well.
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That’s the best way having balance is the key!
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Great post! Lately I have been more in the moment.
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Thank you!
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Yes..I am a planner. I feel like I need to continue to make successful small steps in reaching goals..However, I do like spontaneity….
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I understsnd when we’re focused on our goals its best to have a plan. Thanks for reading & sharing!
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It’s definitely a fine balance that must be achieved between being present and planning for the future. I appreciate your perspective on making this a reality!
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Thank you!
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I’m currently in between. I have always tried to plan my entire life, and I’m only 22. Now, being a mother, I am at a crossroads. I still need to work towards my future but I’ve found I have never just lived for the moment.
You know what? I will post a response to this question. 🙂
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I understand being at a crossroad can be overwhelming. Thanks for reading & sharing!
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Hi Jay
This is a very interesting post.
Firstly in my opinion we should take a little time to plan what we would like to achieve each day rather than go with the flow.
Secondly what we do today will have an effect on our future.
Short term should be action and results and long term should be objectives to achieve
We our talking about our lives here and we all need to get the best results.
Max
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You’re right I’ve always argeed with the concept of having a balance between the two. Thanks for sharing & reading!
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Hi Jay, I really liked what you said about balancing being a planner and a person who goes with the flow. I love it! I feel that I balance both quite well and I’m glad that you mentioned it. Moreover, your thoughts remind me of a conversation I had with someone and I mentioned that, “I’m not scared for my future. I’m scared for what is happening now.” Anyways, I enjoyed reading your post.
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Thank you for reading & sharing!
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Great piece. I have struggled in the past with needing to plan everything. As I’ve grown and matured as a person, I have learned there can be a happy balance.
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Thank you & I agree having balance is key!
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A little of both. Planning increased as I began to age. Imagine that!
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I agree balance is the key!
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There is no way we will stop dreaming our dreams, so I feel that living in the moment with presence, keeps taking care of the future. It is actually very amazing yet arduous at times.
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