The decision making process is never easy no matter how much you think, rationalize and even lose sleep over making a difficult decision. Big decisions often cause serious stress in your life. A decision that can be very difficult is deciding whether to leave or stay in a relationship. We all know that there’s no such thing as a relationship without challenges. However, some stumbling blocks are merely garden-variety, while others are bona fide deal-breakers. Determining which ones are which can be tough especially if other factors are involved such as love, kids, money or the fear of starting over and being single again. This conundrum faces many people in relationships. One day everything is going good then before you know it you might be considering ending it. Although it may seem tempting to end a relationship over a few petty arguments or disagreements. I tend to believe that minor differences shouldn’t be the end of something that could potentially be great. On the other hand there are somethings that are deal breakers and should always be talking seriously. Now, usually this is the point in most of my post where, I might offer solutions for this decision and what signs you should look for before you make your decision. I might suggest to ask yourself questions like do you consider leaving, because why spend your time miserable when you only live once. Or do you consider staying, because leaving would require sacrificing your reputation, disappointing people you love, and having to start the whole “starting over” phase. How you make this decision is an essential part of what makes you, you. One is not better than the other. No matter your decision to stay or go, be as aware and deliberate as you can. Try to work on making it better life for yourself, rather than letting it make you. No one can tell you whether to stay or to go. No one has your perspective and no one can know how leaving would affect your life and what truly makes you happy. This is a difficult decision to have to make for yourself whether you elect to stay or go is truly your decision. Comment below if you have made this decision before and how did you decide whether to stay or leave.
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